New Guy

When is the Right Time to Have Sex with a New Guy?

Are you comfortable knowing when to have sex with a new guy?  Should you sleep with him yet?  Does delaying sex really increase your chances of landing a man?  Here are a few things you should think about before you have sex with a new guy.

If you are attracted enough to sleep with someone before you are sure if you want to be together, then go ahead.  If this is the case, though, make sure that you’re not hoping to use sex to make him fall for you.  You know yourself best.

If you know that you feel closely connected after you have sex with someone, it is probably best to wait.  You can’t assume that the guy you’re seeing feels the same way.  So protect yourself from getting hurt.

Another reason to delay sex with a new guy is that you want to weed out guys who aren’t really interested in you.  This does not guarantee that a guy won’t just be interested in the challenge of getting you into bed.  Rarely, a guy will hang in there even when you wait, and then lose interest.

However, waiting will at least get rid of the guys who are just looking for the path of least resistance.  You don’t need to jump in bed with a guy to keep his interest.  If you feel you need to do this, then he’s probably not worth hanging on to.

Before you do decide to sleep with him, make sure that you are comfortable enough to talk about two subjects with him: your expectations from your relationship, and safe sex.  If you don’t feel like you can discuss these things with him, then you shouldn’t be sleeping with him.

You will need to be able to feel that you can trust a man before you sleep with him.  No matter what you are looking for when you have sex with a new guy, make sure that you won’t end up regretting it.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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